Traditional after a month before: wen, men and women both parties’ character is set date, family, bring SanSheng “ritual” to NvGu wine. After gift: family until very auspicious day, bring gift and ritual bread, coconut, tea, betelum, seafood, chicken to SanSheng (including two to two geese, pigs, spleen, sesame seed, two), lily, red jujube, longan, glutinous rice powder, sugar and wine, longfeng bracelet pair, wedding ring and gold chain, etc., to NvGu. When NvGu received after the gift which part of the family, this call back to return.” The above items are usually half or several, plus a couple, taro lotus, pomegranate, orange pair, a handkerchief, son-in-law suits, leather belt, ritual, silver, fans, a pair of two generations, top write “BaiZi, five thousand sun”. Old woman: dowry, need a big orange and a little orange to family do inside dowry, 72 dress, with bed, lotus seed, longan, and is accompanied, There is “butterfly” ode cut, “The market is longfeng world-now, etc, the pillow, bedding sheets of slippers, pyjamas, underwear, and the two sons; barrel (within), FangGong spittoon eggs, sugar, two, a pair of red chopsticks, ginger slices ten, umbrella. It: above in marriage ceremony held in the morning, Kim has choice than her male hour. Half an hour early start (about an hour, and the poor by” good guy “and” good “for men and women both parties Siva. Both are home to wear pyjamas, a woman in a more to see moonlight window open window.” good guy “and” good “is the home of Siva and elder, choose between parents and children alive, marriage, the woman had peace. It was banned from the ground after walking on, so when you’re beautiful today by large sedan. Top” behind the elder sister good guy “and” good “side of Siva, said:” a comb side to comb, comb, 2 combs, white neat eyebrow, Three comb, comb to children everywhere. “go: open antivir, Kim has representative spawning mung beans and rice.” umbrella hat on roof, and used to ward off evil spirits. HuiMen plunger-type couple: for NvGu regurgitation following item generation, the golden pig two, a pot of wine, chicken, a pair of two boxes, fruit two baskets, face two boxes, you should try and pork. NvGu must leave pangtouyu pounds her daughter and son-in-law NvGu after eating. HuiMen return, including cake routinely, bamboo, cane, pumps, lettuce, celery, slice and pigtail. Due to the era of progress, the basics, above all is the ceremony can be replaced, instead of pork, pork gold. Instead of cake, namely the cake gold. Taboo: pregnant women who were mourning and may not be out of house and saw new, more can’t touch the new clothes and bridal chamber. If all items “climb head” married couples, in its unmarried sufficiently can go through the crotch.
Han Chinese customs
Past youth marriage more han arranged by parents, mostly from parents got engaged to point to an abdomen, sometimes for marriage, namely the child is born, both parents for their marriage was established.
Marriage: namely the namesake not the men and women do not marry surname, began early dynasty, is the national executes family week exogamous in regulation. Autumn, people will cause offspring married run-mechanism and sterility has further understanding, but still the nobility will marry. After the warring states, to name for the surname, after all, therefore, the name has not married will not. To the tang dynasty, and follow the namesake marriage and prohibitions. The song and yuan a law for marriage, namesake of dry from staff. During the Ming and qing regional bigger, population, a regional basis as the society, replaced the original basis with blood clan. So the statutes and the statutes of qing dynasty, and divide the namesake sameblood for both surface and regulations prohibit marriages, actual namesake and different cases can also get married. In the late qing dynasty, the book will not marriage law with relatives will not only prohibit marriages merger, bears marriage.
Engagement before NvGu to propose to please the matchmaker. When the groom’s engagement to her some property as “order”, married woman will bring many possessions, called “family PeiJia”.
Wedding day, groom sat on a car or NvGu, to go “sedan car,” yingqin sedan or front have band. The bride’s family, is face into heaven and earth to visit his parents. After the ceremony, the newlyweds chamber. Then came the family warmly treat HeXi friends. In some places there, listen to the chamber wall feet.
Han marriage customs: check. And that day. Guangxi ADAPTS the most popular. Marriage is a member of the rural engagement. Young men met after understanding, parents, media communication manner to woman, the man, and then send price being paid for the day.
The old more please fortune-teller row “eight”, such as MingXiang until mixed. Some place both parents to meet their engagement. As quanzhou region, both sides agree to send the matchmaker and, after the flesh to woman and wine material accompanied her parents agreed date and to meet man’s family, uncle warmly treat. Young ZhiHu wine, and her uncle after his uncle, and worshipped estadio mestalla sequence toast. Both sides agreed wedding, engagement to success. Thereafter, send her weight and hire her dowry preparation, the preparation, furniture, wedding in period. If the urge marriage, then make a glutinous rice starter (known as “reunion starter to man’s family,”), hospitality and with our neighbors. General all respect the initiative will be arranged in advance.
Song: marriage customs HeLang han, popular in the northeast area county. The bride and groom after dinner, surrounded by friends, HeLang sing song to stall. Improvisational now, also have woven conveys the word, witty banter. Sing a song of relatives and friends, the bridegroom drink a cup of wine. Sing until midnight, groom the bridal chamber. For men and women singers, the door opened, and duet fun party to open the door. After taking the door, by “congratulations NaoFang sing sing to a new lang” ten cup “, in order to groom by 1 October has no head for wine cup to drink no winner by male singers and drink). Then sang the JiaoHuan wine, drink with new both. Finally singer sing “buckle door to door song ends buckle.
Sit red: marriage customs, han popular in northeast of quanzhou region, young men were married in their ancestors and before accepting an elder sermon. The bride wears a red hang adorn, the classmate sisters sitting room, the euphemism softly sing songs, read crying marriage, grace and parents. Sisters told the bride filial piety, peace after brothers and sisters, praise the bridegroom xiah hardworking. When the bride tells the unpleasant thoughts, encourage many sisters. Say goodbye to sing a night clothes and give gifts. The groom also accompanied by classmate a brother at home, and Daniel gate elders, life. Teach TuiTang old end, boys laughing up after the groom, joy, and a late-night square.
Key: marriage customs on han, popular in the northeast of quanzhou region. The bride married by its young keys, or Zhi siblings in SongQin “and”. The bride and groom before sending packets to SongQin lang, so that after the bride on key to open the box, which included, symbol GuMi after the grain and multiply it, and family prosperity. SongQin lang too few, the bridegroom times not to add. SongQin lang receive packets, groom have keys, and the bride bride.
See house: one member, rural ethnic customs marriage is an important procedure. At home, check and home. Guangxi ADAPTS the most popular. When two women and called the girl with gu “in a dozen friends, to men and women were accompanied by GuKuang (also has the oneself not to). The principal hospitality. Married both member introduces the matchmaker. The relatives and friends, and then ask screening potential man shall give her, and usually the guests HangJiao “money”. Next, both through the matchmaker fine. Some places are allowed into married men were fruitful discussion after truth, dig out again by the matchmaker re-debate marriage.
Dark room bride: marriage customs, han popular in our county area greet. The next process mountainous area, the bride married cry came after two days and two nights, with notes of early with hidden black room. Male escort team arrived, the bride’s brother (or cousin’s cousin) and the young man broke. The companion throw sand wave bamboo resistance. QiangZhe trying to drag out the notes to eliminate interference. If two QiangZhe unlucky, 4 to 10 people, and the bride out until the strong back. Then the two families by man or woman took 4) back home to lang bride. Bride, male to female race with ink, female pot smoke to tear male garment unlined upper garment, the models for the young men a dozen play.
Bride: han marriage custom color, guangxi include most popular. The wedding is an important procedure. Often the groom’s uncle lit a candle on the fifth laughter, and said HeXi color words. If our common techniques county area color: “dragon HuaTang illuminates, alone, and bare and longevity, ferro into double” and “hands up two long, congratulations premium.who a bride marries nephew, wong and tragic, add in 100 older couples greeting.” After finish, the bride and groom greetings BaiTianDe, fathers, and to worship their marriage.
The old han HuiMen: marriage customs. Namely after married three, six, seven, 9, 10, or with the bride with gifts, son-in-law to return home, wife of the parents and child Scorpio is relative. Since the beginning of adult came close to the finish, so far. This custom plays in general, GuiNing “, “for the visiting parents marriage home. Later, the name of song dynasty is over, “bynum said” qing north gate called “double doors” southern says “will kiss”, hebei in certain areas, “said” belle son-in-law hit it off from hangzhou says “back”. In modern tong bao on the third day, say again “HuiMen plunger-type.” This is the last one marriage ceremony, have a daughter doesn’t forget to repay their parents, wife and newlyweds son-in-law for love and beauty, generally, etc NvGu are warmly treat, new son-in-law sitting by the female family thine seated with drink. The newlyweds or return, or keep for several days, if you keep, a different accommodation.
